The
Perils of the Bottle
Introduction:
I
do not know if you have noticed this when you're watching local news
on TV. There is a rise in vehicular accidents,
involving both motorcycles and automobiles. As I watch the morning
news, I would hear of vehicles bumping into other vehicles, or of
vehicles hitting non-moving objects like electric posts or concrete
barriers. Now, accidents do happen. Even I get involved in
vehicular accidents. However, what is alarming is that many of the
drivers involved in these accidents, according to investigators, had
the smell of alcohol lingering in their breaths. We have been taught
that when you drink alcohol, its better not to drive. If you plan to
drive, then don't drink in the first place. It is because driving
under the influence of alcohol is extremely hazardous. Your judgment
plus your physical capabilities are greatly impaired.
However,
alcoholism not only causes vehicular accidents. Alcoholism is often
the reason why homicides and sexual crimes are committed against others. In terms of health, Alcoholism has
caused many people to suffer from liver illnesses such as hepatitis
and liver cirrhosis. In
the United States, it is reported that one in four hospital
admissions is the result of alcohol abuse.
I
am sure you know what I am going to talk about today from the Book of
Proverbs. It is a topic that I have never really heard many churches
preach on. I do not know if it is because someone's sensitivities
might get trampled upon, or because we think its not a problem among
people who come to church. The reason why I believe I have to share
this somewhat sensitive topic from Proverbs is because alcoholism is
a real problem that has affected not only non-believers but even
believers in Christ. The fact that the apostle Paul, prior to
telling the Ephesian Christians to be filled with the Holy Spirit,
had to warn them not to get drunk with wine or alcoholic beverages,
implies that there were people in the church who were indulging in
drunkenness and this had greatly and adversely affected their
behavior.
If
you were to ask me as to what is my conviction about drinking, I
would tell you that I do not find drinking alcoholic beverage to be
outright wrong.
Instead, it is drunkenness that is the problem. It is drunkenness
that is condemned in the Bible. Also, I am of the opinion that when
the Bible talks of wine and fermented drinks, these drinks usually
have some alcoholic content. Now, I base my conviction on what I
have read from a reliable Bible Dictionary. Now, does my
understanding of wine and fermented drinks in the Bible mean that I
am giving a blanket endorsement of drinking? Am I saying that the
Bible teaches that it is all right to drink alcoholic beverages?
No. I do not
think that the Bible endorses drinking alcohol when you could easily
drink water or milk or juice. I do not think that it is absolutely
all right to drink alcohol. At the same time, I do not think that
the Bible condemned drinking alcohol. What is condemned is
drunkenness.
Before
we look into the Book of Proverbs, I would like to share two Bible
passages with you. The first passage is from Deuteronomy 14:22 to
26. The passage is all about setting aside one tenth of one's
harvest in order to bring it to the Lord as well as to partake of
God's blessings in his presence. In verse 26 we read the following:
“Use the silver to
buy whatever you like: cattle, sheep, wine
or other fermented drink,
or anything you wish. Then you and your household shall eat there in
the presence of the LORD your God and rejoice.”
From this particular verse, one can surmise that God does not really
prohibit people from partaking of alcoholic beverages. However, we
must realize that this statement is not a blanket endorsement for
partaking alcoholic beverages nor does it give permission for people
to get drunk. God allowed the people to partake of alcoholic
beverages within the context of feasting in God's presence, and it
would have probably been done with the Levites and priests keeping
things from getting out of control. If you drink a glass of red wine
or champagne during a wedding reception because you are celebrating a
joyous occasion, I do not think that would constitute as a sin,
provided you don't end up getting drunk or that you just take one
glass and no more.
Another
verse I would like to share with you is a passage from the New
Testament, 1 Timothy 5:23
– “Stop
drinking only water, and use a little wine because of your stomach
and your frequent illnesses.”
Now, some people have taken this passage and twist it to mean that
its alright to drink. Again, the context is important. The passage
is addressed to Timothy who probably has some health issues and Paul
was telling him to drink a little wine so as to cure his illnesses.
It is sort of like something that had happened to my father when he
was still young. My father had some health problems and he went to
the doctor. The doctor prescribed him to drink one bottle of beer a
day
for a certain period of time, I think no more than one week. Now, I
do not know exactly why the doctor prescribed beer, but the purpose
was purely medicinal. My father never drinks, and I can imagine the
agony he went through trying to finish one bottle of beer. For the
mothers here, after you bore a child, you are given bottles of
iron-rich wine
in order to help your body recuperate. Drinking alcoholic beverages
is allowed if there is a clear medical purpose associated to it.
In
the book of Proverbs, I found three reasons why we should not let
alcohol take control of our lives. However, there could be more than
three. What I am going to state now are what I would call as the
obvious reasons as cited by the Book of Proverbs. If you have never
ever touched alcohol in your life, then today's message is a warning
for you to not even try at all in the first place. For those who
have the habit of drinking, today's message is a warning for you to
either stop altogether because it is already an addiction that has
you in bondage, or to be more responsible in keeping yourself from
getting drunk.
Reason
# 1: Alcohol Can Lead to Poverty
Proverbs 21:17
He
who loves pleasure will become poor; whoever loves wine and oil will
never be rich.
Proverbs
23:19 – 21
Listen,
my son, and be wise, and keep your heart on the right path. Do not
join those who drink too much wine or gorge themselves on meat, 21
for drunkards and gluttons become poor, and drowsiness clothes them
in rags.
The
author of Proverbs rightly observed that those who indulge in alcohol
to the point of drunkenness usually end up poor. It is because they
spend whatever money they have for drinking. Those who work in the
morning and drink after work, spend whatever money they could
actually save up for their future. Others just spend the whole day
drinking. I have seen people in urban poor areas having drinking
sprees even before the sun has set. These people have become poor
because they have chosen to become drunk rather than be responsible
to go out and work or to at least make a living. For those who drink
regularly, I want you to do some math.
Take the number of bottles of beer or bottles of liquor you drink
every week and multiply it by the price of the drink, then multiply
it by four. You will arrive at a figure which is the total amount
you've spent on drinking in a month. That money could have been
spent for something better. You could have put that money in the
bank or you could have used it to buy more food for the family. You
could have saved that money in order to buy something for the family
or for yourself. By choosing to drink, you actually impoverish
yourself and your family because you bring home lesser money or you
use up whatever money you have just to maintain your vice.
A
survey was done in the U.S. to determine the causes of homelessness
in the U.S. It was discovered that 38% of people who are homeless
are alcohol dependents.
Alcoholism is responsible for making people poor. It renders people
incapable of working. It eats up whatever money one has. Therefore,
don't let alcohol become your master or else you will be driven to
poverty.
Reason
# 2: Alcohol Impairs Judgment
The
second reason why we must not indulge in alcohol is because alcohol
can impair one's judgment. In Proverbs 31, the mother of King Lemuel
gave this sound advice to his son
– - “It
is not for kings, O Lemuel – not for kings to drink wine, not for
rulers to crave beer, lest they drink and forget what the law
decrees, and deprive all the oppressed of their rights. (vv.
4 - 5)” Lemuel's mother knew that, for his son to be a godly and
wise king, he must never allow alcohol to have control over him. In
fact, the requirement for a king is quite high here. He is not to
even drink or crave for alcohol. His mind must not be clouded as an
effect of drinking.
When
someone is drunk, he is usually in a state where he can no longer
judge between what is right and wrong. When a person is sober, he
will not go about doing things that would violate his conscience. He
will not do things that would violate other people. But when a
person gets drunk, the line between right and wrong is blurred. Lots
of bad things happen as a result. Studies conducted in various
countries reported that many domestic violence incidents are related
to alcohol use. For instance, in Uganda, 52% of the women who
experienced domestic violence reported that their partners had
consumed alcohol. In India, 33% of abusing husbands use alcohol.
Alcohol abuse has also led to the increase of teenage pregnancy as
the state of drunkenness makes them lose their inhibitions and
restraint all too easily.
While the proverb we just read
was addressed directly to King Lemuel, its application is actually
universal, meaning it applies to all people, and especially to
Christians. We must not allow alcohol to take away our ability to
think and act wisely and justly.
Reason
# 3: Alcohol Destroy Lives
Proverbs 23:31 – 32
Do
not gaze at wind when it is red, when it sparkles in the cup, when it
goes down smoothly! In the end it bites like a snake and poisons
like a viper.
Thirdly,
alcohol destroys lives. In Proverbs 23:32, drunkenness is compared
to the bite of a snake and the poison of a viper. Excessive alcohol
in one's body functions like poison. It destroys people's internal
organs. People who drink excessively suffer from cirrhosis of the
liver, hepatitis, heart problems and so much more. However, more
than the physical suffering, alcohol destroys lives because marriages
are wrecked. Children of alcoholic parents are deprived of the care
and love that they should be having. Others fall victim to drunken
drivers who are reckless. According to a U.S. research, between the
period of 1982 and 1993, more than 260,000 deaths in the U.S. were
alcohol-related. More than 300,000 people were injured in crashes
where the police reported that alcohol was present.
In
Proverbs 23:34 – 35
we read, “You
will be like one sleeping on the high seas, lying on top of the
rigging. 'They hit me,' you will say, 'but I'm not hurt! They beat
me, but I don't feel it! When will I wake up so I can find another
drink?”
People who drink have a false sense of security. They feel as if
they are invincible. This explains why drunk people are reckless.
Alcohol gives them a false sense of courage which leads to danger,
danger to the drunk as well as to those surrounding him. Alcohol
also makes people violent. Do you know which song, when sung in a
karaoke bar, often results in violence and death? It's the song, “My
Way” by Frank Sinatra. However, I don't think its about the song
itself that is dangerous, but the context wherein the song was being
sung – by people who were drunk and surrounded by others who were
drunk. This explains why violence takes place when people have too
much to drink.
Alcoholism destroys lives.
Don't be a fool to think that you are invincible and it won't happen
to you. The Bible has warned that it is like the poison of a viper.
Don't allow alcohol to destroy you as well as those who surround you.
Conclusion:
I
have shared my personal conviction that drinking alcohol is not
wrong; rather it is drunkenness that is the problem. The Book of
Proverbs warns us against allowing alcohol to control our lives. I
think we are clear about these points. I know that some of you may
then argue that since you are a moderate and responsible drinker,
then you're ok. Well, let me say that the answer is “no”.
Paul, in Romans 14 warns that all of us have to give an account to
God on how we live our lives. Are we putting up stumbling blocks
along the way, causing others to fall? We may have the opinion that
drinking isn't bad, but other believers may not feel the same way.
They don't agree with my point of view or with your point of view?
So, what do you do? Do we keep on drinking because it is our right,
or do we refrain because we don't want people to stumble in their
faith on account of us? Paul also wrote in 1 Corinthians 10:23 that
everything is permissible but not everything is beneficial. We
should therefore not seek our own good, but the good of others. Will
drinking alcohol really benefit me? Will my drinking be good for
other people? Think through those questions before you ever think of
sipping alcohol. Another reason why I don't think we should drink
alcohol comes from a letter that I found from a website. It is
written by a person named Jeanie who has lost five people who are
closest to her due to alcoholism. Let me read her letter.
I
have no idea where to start as my heart is deeply grieved and broken
as I
lost a cousin yesterday who was like my brother and best friend.
Tommy died from drinking so much that he was bleeding internally and
by the time they got him to the Hospital yesterday he died, it was
too late.
I
lost a brother in 2005 to alcohol and Heroin - he was murdered. I had
a friend just last month take her life ... she too was an alcoholic.
I lost an uncle in 2004 to liver failure and liver cancer from
drinking alcohol and his younger brother, my other uncle was drunk
and fell and hit his head and it killed him.
My
other uncle that was related to the the above who was the youngest
out of all of them over-dosed by shooting up. My aunt is an alcoholic
and so is my Mother and Father, The ones I am talking about above are
the ones who are all related to each other as sisters and brothers
and cousin. My heart feels like it has stopped beating and every day
I feel like I cannot breath. The loss is too much and overwhelming. I
used to be one of them and the Lord pulled me out and cleaned me up
back in 2003. Because of the Lord I am alive and I am being healed
more and more every day. Addiction is not a drug or alcohol problem
it is a heart issue. When we walk in deep rooted pain we use what is
available to dull the pain which leads to death. When pain lives in
the heart it leaves room for the invitation of addiction.
The
only one I know who can clean up a life and heal a wounded heart is
Jesus Christ. I do not know where I would be today walking through
death after death when it could and should have been me right along
with them.
From
the letter, it is clear that some people drink because they want the
pain that they're experiencing in life to go away. Isn't that what
drugs and alcohol supposedly do? Its supposed to help you forget
your problems even for a while? Unfortunately, its all temporary,
and its nothing more than escapism. Instead of turning to drugs and
alcohol, why don't we turn to Jesus? What are the pains that you are
feeling in your heart right now? Don't turn to alcohol. Don't turn
to drugs. Don't turn to anything the world is offering that will
ease the pain. I invite you to turn your life to Jesus. He is the
one who can help us in our time of need, in our time of pain. Jesus
invites us all to come to him and to cast our anxieties upon him and
he will help us. Alcohol can't help you solve your problems. It
can't lift your burdens. Only Jesus can.
Brothers
and sisters. I invite you all to seriously consider the ill-effects
of getting drunk on alcohol. Alcohol leads to poverty. Alcohol
impairs judgment. Alcohol destroys lives. I am sure we can all
survive and flourish in life without having to drink a single drop of
wine, strong drink or beer. It is God's will for us to be filled
with his Spirit, much more than being filled with the spirit of
alcohol.
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